Comments for The magnificent world of the dodo http://diricawl.wordpress.com There's always a wonderful being close to us Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:45:32 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on I am who I am by gwenn-aelle http://diricawl.wordpress.com/2009/11/06/i-am-who-i-am/#comment-61 gwenn-aelle Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:45:32 +0000 http://diricawl.wordpress.com/?p=180#comment-61 oui, mais sans te renfermer, sans t'isoler.. plus je te lis, plus je pense que tu es arrivee a un mnoment ou tu essayes de te definir. (pas REdefinir)...ca nous arrive a tous pense juste a travailler POUR toi, comme tu le dis..ni pour les autres ni contre eux. tu es la seule personne qui sera toujours avec toi...ta meilleure amie et aussi, si tu ne fais pas attention, ta pire ennemie sois bien avec toi-meme, le reste vient tout seul oui, mais sans te renfermer, sans t’isoler..

plus je te lis, plus je pense que tu es arrivee a un mnoment ou tu essayes de te definir. (pas REdefinir)…ca nous arrive a tous

pense juste a travailler POUR toi, comme tu le dis..ni pour les autres ni contre eux.
tu es la seule personne qui sera toujours avec toi…ta meilleure amie et aussi, si tu ne fais pas attention, ta pire ennemie
sois bien avec toi-meme, le reste vient tout seul

]]> Comment on Friendship Road by gwenn-aelle http://diricawl.wordpress.com/2009/10/28/friendship-island/#comment-60 gwenn-aelle Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:42:05 +0000 http://diricawl.wordpress.com/?p=175#comment-60 eh ben..tu arrives a un moment, l'age aide aussi, ou tu te poses de vraies questions..si plusieurs personnes te disent la meme chose, il faut reflechir. et si ca t'interesse vraiment, changer... essayer de voir ce qui marche avec certaines personnes aussi. comment ca se fait que tu aies des amies de longue date? si tu es vraiment aussi mauvaise amie, tu serais seule. qu'est-ce qui fait qu'avec certaines tu agis d'une facon et avec d'autres non?. la distance physique? la duree de votre relation?le fait que les contacts soient limites? reflechis, et si tu sens, car on a toujours une petite voix qui nous dit la verite, qu'il faut changer , fais-le. ou si tu penses etre dans le droit chemin., alors...tu es peut-etre arrivee a un moment de la vie (l'age, je te dis), ou on a peu d'amis..tres peu. les autres, ce sont des copains. quel que soit le cas, tu as du pain sur la planche.. eh ben..tu arrives a un moment, l’age aide aussi, ou tu te poses de vraies questions..si plusieurs personnes te disent la meme chose, il faut reflechir. et si ca t’interesse vraiment, changer…

essayer de voir ce qui marche avec certaines personnes aussi. comment ca se fait que tu aies des amies de longue date? si tu es vraiment aussi mauvaise amie, tu serais seule. qu’est-ce qui fait qu’avec certaines tu agis d’une facon et avec d’autres non?. la distance physique? la duree de votre relation?le fait que les contacts soient limites?
reflechis, et si tu sens, car on a toujours une petite voix qui nous dit la verite, qu’il faut changer , fais-le.
ou si tu penses etre dans le droit chemin., alors…tu es peut-etre arrivee a un moment de la vie (l’age, je te dis), ou on a peu d’amis..tres peu. les autres, ce sont des copains.

quel que soit le cas, tu as du pain sur la planche..

]]> Comment on Friendship Road by diricawl http://diricawl.wordpress.com/2009/10/28/friendship-island/#comment-59 diricawl Sun, 01 Nov 2009 22:00:25 +0000 http://diricawl.wordpress.com/?p=175#comment-59 Work in progress... Intentions are not good enough, I know that... Friendships should be uncomplicated... I won't defend myself, not after so many clear issues, and I can't deny cause it hurts like hell... But that she doesn't see anymore... At least with you, I know where I stad, and I admire your courage to tell me in the face... At least I can make an effort from there on, whether it's enough, only time will tell... Work in progress… Intentions are not good enough, I know that… Friendships should be uncomplicated…
I won’t defend myself, not after so many clear issues, and I can’t deny cause it hurts like hell… But that she doesn’t see anymore…
At least with you, I know where I stad, and I admire your courage to tell me in the face… At least I can make an effort from there on, whether it’s enough, only time will tell…

]]> Comment on Friendship Road by Tonks http://diricawl.wordpress.com/2009/10/28/friendship-island/#comment-58 Tonks Sun, 01 Nov 2009 10:02:52 +0000 http://diricawl.wordpress.com/?p=175#comment-58 I am convinced that you have every intention to be a good friend and I know that if something bad should happen, I can count on you. But you are indeed very self-centered and have an attitude of moral superiority. There have been many times where, after we've spent some time together, I realised that you hadn't even asked about me, my work, my hobbies, ... nothing. Or you invite friends but you don't receive them. Showing genuine interest in your friends, being more 'friend-centered', is one of the things that keeps friendships alive. Sadly, I also know that it is a lost cause to talk/write to you about it. Either you start defending yourself, explaining why you did or said such and so, or you simply deny it. In both cases, I end up feeling neglected and nothing changes. So, to most people, that leaves only two options: they break up or they keep their distance. I am convinced that you have every intention to be a good friend and I know that if something bad should happen, I can count on you. But you are indeed very self-centered and have an attitude of moral superiority. There have been many times where, after we’ve spent some time together, I realised that you hadn’t even asked about me, my work, my hobbies, … nothing. Or you invite friends but you don’t receive them. Showing genuine interest in your friends, being more ‘friend-centered’, is one of the things that keeps friendships alive.
Sadly, I also know that it is a lost cause to talk/write to you about it. Either you start defending yourself, explaining why you did or said such and so, or you simply deny it. In both cases, I end up feeling neglected and nothing changes. So, to most people, that leaves only two options: they break up or they keep their distance.

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]]> Comment on Autumn by gwenn-aelle http://diricawl.wordpress.com/2009/09/22/autumn/#comment-55 gwenn-aelle Fri, 25 Sep 2009 17:48:30 +0000 http://diricawl.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-55 que rico... que rico…

]]> Comment on Autumn by Tonks http://diricawl.wordpress.com/2009/09/22/autumn/#comment-54 Tonks Wed, 23 Sep 2009 09:15:34 +0000 http://diricawl.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-54 It brings a tear to the eye... But I love autumn too: the colors, the smells, the change of light, ... I hope it'll last till Italy! Oh, and it's 'beware OF the nut trees'. I've endured long enough :-) It brings a tear to the eye…

But I love autumn too: the colors, the smells, the change of light, … I hope it’ll last till Italy!

Oh, and it’s ‘beware OF the nut trees’. I’ve endured long enough :-)

]]> Comment on e.e. cummings – i carry your heart with me by Luna Lovegood http://diricawl.wordpress.com/2009/08/12/e-e-cummings-i-carry-your-heart-with-me/#comment-53 Luna Lovegood Thu, 13 Aug 2009 08:14:10 +0000 http://diricawl.wordpress.com/?p=159#comment-53 Mooooooi - e.e. cummings is één van mijn favoriete dichters! Mooooooi – e.e. cummings is één van mijn favoriete dichters!

]]> Comment on Why do you read me? by Ojos http://diricawl.wordpress.com/2009/08/04/why-do-you-read-me/#comment-52 Ojos Wed, 12 Aug 2009 15:15:21 +0000 http://diricawl.wordpress.com/?p=156#comment-52 Nice to know I'm being watched in the right way... :-) Nice to know I’m being watched in the right way… :-)

]]> Comment on Why do you read me? by Tonks http://diricawl.wordpress.com/2009/08/04/why-do-you-read-me/#comment-51 Tonks Tue, 11 Aug 2009 18:36:25 +0000 http://diricawl.wordpress.com/?p=156#comment-51 Because I like to keep an eye on you, to know how you really feel. So when things get messed up, I send an e-mail to ask how you are :-) Because I like to keep an eye on you, to know how you really feel. So when things get messed up, I send an e-mail to ask how you are :-)

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