In my yearn to please others, I used to be a very caring person, always being there for others, up to the point I let people use me and there wasn’t any room left for me and my desires. I realised it and changed my behaviour and now I’m too self-centered or so they say…
And then I read these words on a friend’s blog: “You live, you learn. But you don’t change who you are. People are people and we know by now that most of the time, they prefer to project their own reality onto others.”
And I realised I’m fed up trying to change myself and/or my behavior to please the world…
For my own good, I’ll try to stop justifying my actions, feelings and thoughts. And secondly, before I start telling something, I’ll just stop to think whether what I have to tell is of any interest for the other person. If not, I’ll listen instead… If that’s not good enough for others, tough luck, it’s good enough for me…
I am who I am, and I’m not a bad person…
oui, mais sans te renfermer, sans t’isoler..
plus je te lis, plus je pense que tu es arrivee a un mnoment ou tu essayes de te definir. (pas REdefinir)…ca nous arrive a tous
pense juste a travailler POUR toi, comme tu le dis..ni pour les autres ni contre eux.
tu es la seule personne qui sera toujours avec toi…ta meilleure amie et aussi, si tu ne fais pas attention, ta pire ennemie
sois bien avec toi-meme, le reste vient tout seul