When my wife is with me she yearns for The Other… and she’s not able to hide it… She says she’s giving us a real chance to save our marriage, despite what she feels for The Other… But her actions tell me otherwise… As does her body language…
I want to be with her, but when 90% of our conversation include The Other, it becomes rather unbearable… But maybe I have a temporary solution… What if she spends one week with The Other and then one week with me and our daughter? In that way she’ll know whether life with The Other would be as great as she believes… She’ll know whether she misses me when she doesn’t see me for a whole week… She’ll know whether she could bear being separated from our daughter for a whole week… And because we would have more space, maybe we’ll grow to each other again… Because now, she bearely touches me… No intimacy at all… She says she still thinks I’m attractive and handsome, but too much has changed…
Does this sound crazy? I’m not sure I’ll bear her absence, but it can’t be any worse than now bearing her partial presence…
hi.
sometimes it’s to hard to choose between two persons. the one that you’re recently enlove and makes your heart go faster and the one that you’ve known for years, that you love strongly, that you don’t want to hurt…
but…that could be your wife’s situation.
for you..i think, without kowing you at all ( hum…who are you?), i think that you are taking the right pad…she’ll know how is life without you and you…you will know how is life without her…
sorry for my english..hope i didn’t wrote something horrible!