My wife insists on seeing this guy. He’s her first love, they broke up because their parents didn’t want them to be together and because his father tried to abuse her… Years later they see each other again and find out they still love each other and she decides to put an end to our marriage. I fought back and in the end she decided to stay, to give us one more chance.
But she insists in seeing him. I expressed my wish for them to see each other only once a week… I actually think I’m being rather broadminded about this! How many people would allow a third party in their marriage?
They saw each other on Wednesday and tonight as I’ll be out for work, she told me they would be seeing each other again. Am I being unreasonable when I say this is not how we agreed? On the one hand I think I’m being stupid because I won’t be in anyway, on the other hand I hate it when she doesn’t respect our agreements just because they go against her freedom…
They say they’re just friends… but when does friendship become a love affair?
I don’t know, I’m puzzled and confused… I only know I don’t want to lose her, even if it means bearing this “friendship”…
