Things went differently than expected… What am I doing?! We are giving ourselves more time to evaluate our marriage, to give it a real chance… but my wife’s only wish is to spend time with him… We agreed they would meet once a week as friends. Can I trust them? Should I trust them? My wife cries for freedom because she never got it. Any sign that she might be bound makes her run away. What to do? I gave up my freedom to have a child with her… a child who I love more than anything, but who would have come later if my wife would have been more patient… And now she runs from the resposability…
We are trying, really trying… I wish she would show some gratitude… But she thinks staying is already a sign of gratitude…
Anyway, Barak Obama spoke the following words in Ohio (I think), and I find them very applicable to our situation:
“Years from now, you’ll look back and you’ll say that this was the moment, this was the place where America remembered what it means to hope. For many months, we’ve been teased, even derided for talking about hope. But we always knew that hope is not blind optimism. It’s not ignoring the enormity of the tasks ahead or the roadblocks that stand in our path.
It’s not sitting on the sidelines or shirking from a fight. Hope is that thing inside us that insists, despite all the evidence to the contrary, that something better awaits us if we have the courage to reach for it and to work for it and to fight for it.”
I just hope, years from now, it will be my wife and me who will be looking back, smiling…
Ojos
Tres cosas … se dulce es probable que te vuelvan a lastimar.
La vida sigue no te olvides de tus proyectos personales, tu trabajo.
Si piensas el intentar reconquistarla, recuerda que este estado de animo es malo, hay que olvidar lo pasado y manten el estado de animo cuando la conociste.
Todo ira bien, hartos apapachos